WHY DO MOST WOMEN END UP CHEATING ON THEIR PARTNERS?

Men and women cheat on their partners for different reasons. Men tend to cheat because they want more physical stimulation, while women generally have more psychological and emotional motives for cheating.

Chief among these reasons is loneliness. Women often look to relationships with individuals other than their partners because emotional companionship is lacking in the primary relationship. It may appear to be a contradiction that women who have partners are lonely, but often, this partnership is less than emotionally fulfilling. Women may have affairs if they feel they do not receive the attention they deserve from their partners. If a man is too involved with his work or a hobby, he may have little energy left to pay attention to the woman in his life. Women often feel lonely even in the presence of their partners at times. A man may be physically present, but emotionally absent, and this can lead a woman to look for fulfillment outside the relationship.

Revenge is another reason that women cheat on their partners. Women of today are not willing to suffer in silence as their counterparts did in previous generations. If a woman feels wronged, if she has an indication that her partner is cheating on her, she will often have an outside affair to retaliate for the pain she is feeling. Women who find their partners have been cheating on them feel completely justified in having an affair for reasons of revenge. They view an affair as way to make their partners hurt in the same way that they do.

Boredom may cause a woman to look for love outside her primary relationship. As time goes by, relationships may become routine and lose the excitement of their first days. Instead of trying to remedy the current relationship, women may try to inject excitement into their lives by having affairs. Affairs are exciting, both because they involve sex with a new person, and because they involve a considerable amount of 'sneaking around,' hiding things from friends and family, essentially living a second life. For some women, the excitement is so attractive that they are willing to lose their primary relationship in order to pursue an affair.

Low self-esteem can also be a reason for women to cheat. They may feel unattractive and unwanted in their current relationship, even if this is not the case. Partners may not make the same efforts at reassurance that were common in the early days of a relationship, and women's own feelings of inadequacy can make them look for affirmation from new people that they are still desirable. Having an affair with a new partner who finds her attractive and interesting may be compensation for the low self-esteem that characterizes a woman's everyday life. Women who have healthy opinions of themselves and are self-confident are usually happy in their relationships, while those with low self-esteem tend to look outside their relationships for affirmation and end up cheating on their partners.

WHAT IS AN OPEN MARRIAGE?

Life is often very funny. Those people who are not married wish to get married and, those who are already married, want something else. Humans can never really get satisfied with what they have. When you are married, all your sexual needs are met by your partner. What happens if you are not totally fulfilled? Several things will happen. The first thing is to repress it. In other words, you ignore it and pretend you do not have a problem. There are very many couples who are not happy with their sex lives but, because they feel they have no choice, they choose to bear with the situation. The other thing you can do if you are not satisfied in your marriage is get a divorce. A huge chunk of the married population has done this and, many do not regret their decision. They have opted to find other people who might suit them better. The other thing that couples do when they are not satisfied is cheat. Many men and women have been caught doing this. In this generation, cheating is no longer news and, it has become rampant.

Many of the couples, who cheat without the knowledge of their spouse, usually want a different experience and their objective is not to break their families. The other thing that couples who are married do is to recognize their problems and work on it. This does not happen very often because some husbands or wives would die to hear that they are not good in bed. This brings us to the other option which is an open marriage. An open marriage is one with couples getting their sexual satisfaction from their spouses as well as other people with their full knowledge and consent. Roughly 9% of all marriages in the United States are open. This comes with a realization that other people are necessary to fulfill the desires of relevant partners sexually. In other words, open unions can be seen as an accepted form of adultery. We are living in an age where people are governed by decisions. Whatever you choose to do, you are your own master.

Open marriages are very common in the western countries but, there are other countries which have practiced a form of open marriage for generations. For example, in villages of Africa, the Masai culture was open to a man having his way with a woman even if she is not one of his wives. This was meant to enrich the genes of progeny and maintain a strong community. Another reason was for the sheer excitement of it. Therefore, the idea of an open marital union is not new and, more and more people are becoming open to it. Popular TV shows like Oprah and Tyra Banks have been seen to highlight the topic more. When you choose to have many lovers but still maintain a marriage, it is referred to as a polyamory. An open union will have its own fair share of problems one of them being jealousy. Before you decide to try an open marriage, weigh the advantages and disadvantages and, then decide on what will suit you.

Marriage - Open Both Eyes Before, Close One Eye After

"Undress yourselves before you get involved and make a commitment to someone for there's no turning back once you're there." These were the words given to all couple-participants when my wife and I had our pre-nuptial seminar given by a parish worker in a local church where our wedding is to be solemnized. The room was filled with laughter when I replied, "I thought undressing comes after the wedding ceremony?"

These words though rhetoric but are as equally important like what an African proverb says, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye."

Before you get involved and make commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, pressure from others make you blind to warning signs. You and your partner have many different expectations, emotional needs, values and dreams. Keep both eyes open and don't fool yourself that you can change someone during the course of your marriage. Before committing yourself, have some time to observe the person who will become a part of your life. The more you open your eyes to evaluate his/her quality, respect, love and truth, the more easer it will become for you to decide who gets to sit beside you while watching your favorite television program.

Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, their flaws and vulnerabilities will become more obvious. But if you love your partner and want the relationship to grow and evolve to the next level, you've got to learn how to close one eye and not let little thing to bother you. These flaws however can turn into your advantage depending on how each one of you compliments the other. Neither of you are perfect, but you can be perfect for each other depending on how one completes the other. Look at the gap in the fingers of your hand. Do you know what those gap means? Those gaps are meant to be complimented by your partner's hand.

Marriage is accepting the person as what he/she is and not what you expect him/her to be. Partners are two imperfect but unique children of God who have decided to share a life together. And despite these imperfections that were seen by both eyes before marriage, closing one eye after will enables you to see not these imperfections but that someone who shared the altar with you when you said, "I do."

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 who are married but looking elsewhere?

Married women come in all different body shapes, sizes and looks, but the main thing is that they are married and someone else’s wife.

Most married women come out to play while their hubbies are hard at work. The majorities of these married women are adorable, sweet, flirty, and love to tease. They are typical of what all men want.

There are four distinct and identifiable types of  "extra curricular" wives:

The Lonely, Neglected Wife

These are the most vulnerable type of wives that any men will want and get. As these married women are often neglected by their husbands, they hunger for love and affection. In searching for their losses in affection and love, they would go hunting anyway from online dating, clubs, or bars hoping to find just that. Once they do, they would almost immediately fall to any men who would give them just that.

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Wives who fall into this category life’s are in chaos and their senses of self-esteem and worth are in a mess. Emotionally they are weak. For these married women, their marriages were a form of accomplishment and by admitting to a fail marriage would be a shame and a sense of failure.

As they do not want to admit to this failure, they would rather go outside her social circle associated with her family and her husband and seek outside comfort from other men who are interest in her.

The Young and Beautiful Wife

Young and beautiful wives are innocent, ingénue and immature. Getting married to them is like a fairy tale being fulfilled. They are often unaware what marriage means. All they know is that she loves her husband and that she is to stay devoted, dutiful, and truly honest to him.

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They know little of what is installed for them after their honeymoon period and when she is back in reality. Over time they would find that marry life a chore more then a fairy tale being fulfilled. They would often regret getting married so young and blame themselves for not experience life more. Therefore, they try to seek every opportunity to see more of the world.

As a male seeking for married women they are in luck. Young and beautiful married women are out to explore the world with little security. And with your clever disguise of real concern, you can exploit her at her most helpless state.


The Prowler

Married women who are “the prowler” type only married for convenience, meaning that she only married either for money, social status, or for the overall security that a man can give. They are only interested in men who will pay the up most attention on her and only her.

Men who are approach by this type of married women should be aware of her move ahead. She would do pretty much anything to get what she wants. They are much like a tiger or older women, who would slowly approach their prey and attack. Younger and good looking guys should be aware that during these married women sexual peak they would chase after your flesh.

The prowlers are not looking for a long-term relationship or any commitment. She cannot be control by any men nor would she settle down for one. They are just out in the jungle for some fun. So men out there should be aware of these predators.


The Thrill-Seeker

Thrill-seeker housewives are usually wives who are bored by their normal routine of house chores or corporate-types who are under enormous stress and need an avenue of release. These wives these wives tell themselves that they just want to let their hair down and go out to flirt and find a men to chill out with and have some fun. But more often than not, they end up actively seeking to  fulfill their desires and fantasies.

Wives who fall into this type don’t want or have the time to take a holiday to release their stress, but would rather enjoy the company of a toy boy for some action.

Men should be aware that these married women often don’t present signs of arousal or interest. They are out to do the initiating. When they find their target, her game is to seduce you with odd physical advances to make you take the first move. Due to this, men find them irresistible and most often just fall for their lure. But men should remember, that they are her toy and she is the player.




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